I thought the hardest part of saving for our dream home was saying no to all the little things we wanted. I had no idea the biggest threat to our future was already sitting across the living room from me.
The spreadsheet glowed on my laptop like a small, patient promise.
Friday nights had a rhythm in our house: Brian on the couch with a glass of the cheap red wine we always bought, me at the kitchen table, both of us waiting for that little green cell at the bottom to tick a few dollars higher.
I was 35 years old, and that spreadsheet was my proof that a boring life could still amount to something.
Five years. That’s what it had taken us to save for our first home.
We skipped vacations; I drove my old Corolla past 200,000 miles, while my husband kept driving his, even though it could barely run. We turned down dinners out with friends because an entrée was $12 closer to us finally holding the keys to our own house.
Or at least, that’s what I believed.
“Read it out to me,” Brian called from the couch.
“Almost there,” I said. “Three more months and we hit the down payment.”
“Say the number, Carol. Don’t tease me.”
I laughed and told him the number. He whooped like a kid at a ball game and lifted his wineglass toward the ceiling.
“To the future,” he said.
“To not having a landlord,” I answered.
That was the whole partnership, and I loved it.
Brian was soft where I was sharp, calm where I was watchful, and together we balanced each other out into something I trusted.
The only place his softness scared me was with his mother, Sally.
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