This unexpected surge of energy may surprise
This is perhaps the most unsettling sign: a person who has been frail for weeks suddenly seems to regain vitality, ask for food, and want to get up. Doctors call this "terminal lucidity." And even if this improvement seems like good news, caregivers know that it often precedes the end of life.
Savor every moment. Talk to him/her, smile, hold his/her hand in yours. These shared moments will remain etched in your memory like true treasures.
Unusual visions and states of confusion
Towards the end of life, some people describe visions of deceased loved ones, unfamiliar spaces, or strange scenes. This can be disconcerting, even distressing, for those around them. Yet, this phenomenon is well-documented by healthcare teams and is relatively widespread.
What attitude should you adopt? Avoid contradicting your loved one or showing them that these visions are unreal. This could unnecessarily upset them. Instead, opt for a gentle approach: "Do you recognize this person? Are they saying something beautiful to you?" This way of interacting helps them through these moments calmly and allows you to remain connected to them until the very end.
Being truly present: the keys to compassionate support
Identifying these signals doesn't make things easier, but it helps you be fully present, in every sense of the word. Make sure you create a gentle and soothing atmosphere around your loved one. Focus on quality time, tender gestures, and sincere, simple words.
No need to find the perfect formulas — your presence alone is already, in itself, the greatest support.
The love we offer in those moments remains, forever, one of life's most beautiful gifts.
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